I am ordered to pay child support by the Friend of the Court, can I pay my support directly to the other party?

This is not the recommended way in which to pay support. Once a support order has been established, your child support should be taken directly from your paycheck. If you are unemployed, then you are responsible for paying child support on your own. Regardless of how you pay support, once a support order has been established, by the court, you should make payments to either the Friend of the Court in your county or the Michigan Disbursement Unit (depending on the preference of your Friend of the Court). The Friend of the Court in your county keeps track of all support that has been paid by you to the other party, if you pay the other party directly the court will have no knowledge of the payment. If the court has no knowledge of the payment, they will be unable to give you credit for the payments you have made. If you pay the court directly the court can keep track of your current obligation, any arrearages owed, and future payments in an accurate manner.

I was just ordered to pay child support and I received a letter stating I am already in arrears, what does this mean?

An arrearage for child support purposes means that there is an outstanding monthly child support obligation that has not been paid. Unfortunately if you have recently been ordered to pay child support through the Friend of the Court, then you may likely be in arrears. After a child support order has been established, it then takes time for the child support order to be processed. After the Friend of the Court processes the child support order, the Friend of the Court then sends the income withholding to the Michigan Disbursement Unit; the Michigan Disbursement Unit then processes the order and forwards that Order to the Payer’s employer. After the Order has been processed by all of these agencies, then child support is automatically deducted from a Payer’s check.

The time is takes for all of these agencies to process this single Order can take weeks. Therefore, by the time child support is directly taken out of your pay, you are already a month in arrears. Most courts understand that Payer’s are likely in arrears initially.

BAH (Basic Allowance for Housing) and Family Support

BAH or basic allowance for housing is a housing allowance provided to a solider based on geographic duty location, pay grade, and dependency status.

Army Regulation 608-99 is the Army’s regulation regarding family support, child custody, and paternity. In regards to this topic, AR 608-99 obligates a soldier or servicemember to financially support his/her family.

If No Court Order Exists:

In the absence of an oral or written financial support agreement, a family of a servicemember is entitled to a pro rate share of the servicemember’s BAH –II WITH.

The formula is:

 

                                         1                                               X             Applicable BAH-II Rate

Total Number of Family Members Supported

This formula does have exceptions and should be used accordingly.

 

If a Court Order Exists:

If a court Order or another form of a written agreement exists then this written agreement controls the soldier’s financial support obligation. The solider is not required to provide his/her family the support ordered under the written agreement and the pro rata share.

How is Child Support Calculated?

Child Support takes numerous factors into consideration including: the income of the parties’, the needs of the child(ren), the time each parent spends with the child(ren), whether or not the child is in daycare, who pays health insurance for the child(ren), and a array of other factors.

Child Support is calculated using a pre-established formula; it is usually computed by your local Friend of the Court or often by an attorney with working knowledge of the interplay between the child support factors and the party’s unique circumstance.

Below are some typical questions parties have in regards to child support.

 

Does the child support formula take into consideration that I have other children?

Yes, the child support formula takes into consideration whether or not you have additional children, biological or adopted, living in your home or for which you pay support.

The formula does not take into consideration whether or not you have step-children living in your home.

 

Does the child support formula take into consideration who will be claiming the child(ren) for tax purposes?

Yes, the child support formula takes into consideration who is able to claim the child(ren) for tax purposes. Usually the party with sole physical custody of the child(ren) is the person who claims the children for tax purposes.

 

Should I care if the child support formula has some inaccuracies, for example if it says I only have 84 overnights with my child(ren) but I actually spend more time with him/them?

Yes, you should scrutinize any child support recommendation you receive. If you allow a small inaccuracy to become an order of the court without correcting it, this small inaccuracy could have a larger impact in the future.

My soon to be ex-spouse and I have agreed on child support, do we have to go through the Friend of the Court?

Not necessarily. There is an “opt out” process which may allow some parents to negate the need for Friend of the Court services. In these particular cases, child support is not automatically deducted from the Payer’s check. Instead, the Payer pays child support, directly to the Payee, by way of cash, check, or automatic transfer. This process, as described, negates the Friend of the Court service charge of $3.50 per month.

Before deciding to “opt out” of the Friend of the Court process, there are various considerations that must be addressed.

If I have equal parenting time with my child, will I have to pay child support?

Perhaps. A lot of people think that if they share equal parenting time with their children, then neither parent will pay child support. This is often untrue. The child support calculations in Michigan are based on a formula. The formula considers various factors including: income, health insurance, daycare costs, and overnights along with other factors. Even if two parents have the same number of overnights, one parent may in fact pay child support. This usually occurs in cases when one parent makes substantially more money than the other parent

The purpose of the child support formula is to balance the needs and incomes of the parties without impoverishing either party. Therefore, in order to keep the children accustom to the same stand of living in each individual household, child support may be necessary.

My ex-spouse is not using child support for the benefit of the children, what can I do?

The answer to this question is likely nothing. The Friend of the Court does not hear complaints regarding alleged misappropriation of child support payments. The court assumes that child support is being spent on necessities for the children. There is no system that will analyze the way in which a person spends child support payments.

I am in the Military, what is my “income” for child support purposes?

A servicemember’s income, used to calculate child support, includes:

  • Basic and Specialty Pay (BAS);
  • Basic Allowance for Housing Type II rate (BAH-II);
  • Allowance for Quarters and Rations;
  • Veterans’ administration benefits;
  • G.I. benefits (other than your education allotment);
  • Drill Pay; and
  • Reenlistment bonuses

I am going to be incarcerated, what do I do about child support?

If you know that you are going to be incarcerated or if you are currently incarcerated, you should know that your child support obligation does not automatically stop. In order to stop or reduce your child support payments, during your incarceration, you need to file a motion with the friend of the court where your child support obligation is pending. If you have more than one child support obligation in more than one county, then you need to file a motion in each county.   When filing a motion, always keep a copy of your motion for your records.

It is important to file this motion immediately. Delaying the filing of this motion may give up some of your rights.

Child Support and Social Security Supplemental Income

Supplemental Security Income (SSI) is for low income elderly people who do not qualify for Social Security Disability (SDD). If you are receiving Supplemental Security Income your child support payments will not be automatically withdrew from your award. If however, you are receiving SSD, your child support obligation can be automatically withdrawn from this benefit.

If you have a minor child and you are receiving SSD, it is likely that the Social Security Administration will award a benefit to the minor child as well as yourself. If the Social Security Administration also pays a benefit to the minor child or the custodial parent, then this benefit may replace or contribute to your child support obligation.